“Never go to bed angry” A favorite cliche marriage advice. I think of this phrase every time I go to bed angry knowing we can fix the problem in the morning. This phrase and so many others are floating around the universe so commonly known yet so incredibly misguided. Couples are getting married with entirely false ideas of what marriage looks like behind the white picket fence. I feel it is my duty to air out these misleading ideas, not to darken the concept of marriage, but to shed light on it instead.

Sometimes inspirational quotes come from the voice of a well-polished public figure, or out of advice from a loved one, but sometimes they come in the most surprising form. 

Marriage, like the human body, defends itself with an immune system.